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The testimony of two or three witnesses

05 Wednesday Feb 2025

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Today we have seen the hand of God move in a miraculous way, so it seems an especially appropriate day to share the following Jackson family experience from a dozen years ago.

From September 12, 2012:

Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who trusts in Him! – Psalm 34:8

Now that my family has put a week’s perspective between ourselves and our recent experience, we are in a position to better share our hearts’ responses to what the Lord has done. First, the facts:

Last Sunday night (2 Sept) around 11:30 PM we were six miles from home, returning from a weekend visit to Church of the Holy Apostles in Westminster, MD and Church of Reconciliation in Bel Air, MD. I was driving, Edye was in the front passenger seat, with Christyn (13), Tobyn (10) and Bryn (16) stretched out and sleeping on the three rows of bench seats behind us. We’d come through some periods of heavy rain, with more moderate showers in between … and on a straight stretch of 4-lane divided highway the rear wheels of our 12-passenger van suddenly lost traction and we began to fishtail. Christyn heard me cry out “Oh my God!” as I fought to gain control for a few seconds; I could not, and we went off the right shoulder into the ditch at 55 mph (the speed limit was 65). We didn’t know it at the time, but apparently the right front tire hit something and lost air pressure as we angled through the ditch and up the embankment on its far side. We careened through the grass, during which I remember distinctly crying out “Jesus, help us!” multiple times. The van then came back down through the ditch and onto the highway at an angle. Because of the blown tire the van pitched over onto its right side, skidding straight down the highway at an angle until it came to rest across both lanes. The glass of the first three windows in the right side of the van shattered; only the last long side window remained intact, though scratched.

Edye and I confirmed we were both okay, the seat belts and shoulder restraints having done their jobs well. Although the windshield was broken on the right side, there was no front end impact so the air bags did not deploy. As I unfastened my seat belt and let myself down, trying (with only partial success) not to step on Edye below me, Bryn and Christyn were able to stand and Tobyn was not far behind, crawling out of a pile of blankets. Gracious people stopped to assist, opening the rear of the van to help us out, waving traffic around us on both shoulders, and one providing a first aid kit (Christyn had discovered her back was bleeding, so I pressed an antiseptic pad over the wound until help came). Someone must have called 911 because the police and paramedics were on the scene within minutes.

Although I had been able to climb behind the passenger seat and thread my way to the back of the van, Edye was a bit dazed and stayed in her seat. The paramedics took the most direct way in, breaking out the remainder of the windshield to lead Edye to safety. She reported some pain and sensitivity in her neck and shoulders, while Christyn obviously had back pain, so they were both strapped securely onto spine boards and taken in individual ambulances to the hospital in Frederick, MD, about fifteen miles away. The rest of us rode in the ambulance with Edye.

Edye was given a CT scan of her neck and shoulders, while Christyn was given one for her lower back. Edye was given the “all clear” by about 3 AM, her pain most likely caused by the shoulder harness. Christyn was a different story: beyond the obvious external injury – something had gouged out a grape-sized piece of flesh above her pelvic bone to the right of her spine – the CT scan revealed a small fracture in one of her lower vertebrae. The fracture might have been there previously, but just to be safe they left her on the spine board and transported her to Children’s National Medical Center in DC. By 5 AM I was riding with her in a second ambulance while Edye and the boys took a taxi home.

The one hour ambulance trip to DC was uneventful, and Christyn handled being on a spine board for eight hours amazingly well. After admission they attempted to read the data disk with her original CT scan images on it, without success. That left us with a choice of a second CT scan or a two-hour wait for a courier to retrieve a good copy. After a CT redo they decided an x-ray of the specific vertebra was needed … and then one more CT of her pelvis to see if any other damage was visible. Finally by 2 PM they were confident of no serious injury – and would finally allow her to be rolled over and stitched up. Only then did they discover a handful of auto glass inside the back of her shorts – no wonder she had been so uncomfortable all this time! After stitching and cleaning her up she was released at 3 PM; Edye and the boys drove to DC (with a stop at the towing yard to pick up the contents of the van), and we were finally all back home by 8 PM … completely worn out.

This factual description is only a small part of the story; of much greater consequence are the amazing things we experienced in those long hours and the days since! We have spent a good deal of time this past week sharing our various perspectives, and identifying all the ways in which God provided for us through this trial. With joyful hearts we give Him all thanks and praise!

  • We are so thankful the van merely tipped over onto its side rather than rolling over and over
  • As we were sliding along the road on our side, Christyn heard a voice telling her to lift herself up: she was suspended by arms and legs above the asphalt road sliding by the missing second window
  • At the same time, the pillows that Christyn had been sleeping on somehow ended up under Edye’s head and right shoulder, protecting her from the asphalt sliding by inches from her face
  • Moments before the accident Bryn had complained of being a little warm … it both woke him up (so he was aware and could respond appropriately) and caused him to roll over from his stomach onto his back allowing him to fall forward feet first onto the window when gravity and momentum demanded it, and he crouched like a surfer — on the only window that didn’t shatter when the van pitched onto its right side
  • There were no cars near us either in front or behind, and the van rolling onto its side prevented us from crossing over the median and into the opposite direction of traffic
  • If we had left the roadway just a few feet earlier, we would have hit a drainage culvert
  • If we had come back onto the roadway just a few yards later, we would have hit the end of the next guard rail
  • Edye discovered from the towing company that this is an especially dangerous stretch of highway, and apparently that same night another car went completely over the embankment we were on, through another road and fence, ending upside down in a field. We continue to pray God’s mercy and provision upon the occupants

“Witness”: one who has personal knowledge of something

We bear witness to the love, mercy, and power of God! We each have personal, individual, practical (not just theoretical) knowledge of God in the midst of what might have been tragedy. For that reason, though I am sad the accident happened because of the financial impact it will have on our family, I am grateful the accident happened because of all that the Lord has done and will do in our lives through it. Every single one of us saw the hand of God at work. Edye, seeing the ditch approaching, denied fear and closed her eyes in trust that God would save, and indeed His angels were present to strategically avert/minimize the damage. Christyn specifically talked about how this terrifying event had actually strengthened her faith because she experienced a voice inside her exhorting her to hold on tightly, the voice of One Who cares, and Who strengthened her to do it. Both boys stand amazed at the way His hand carried us.

And His grace did not stop once we were all home and together again. The next night (Tuesday 3 Sept) the family spent some time together in prayer specifically regarding the previous two days. Afterward Christyn just remained seated in her chair, so I went over to her. Hardly looking up, she said, “This is the first time in my life I have ever, ever, really sensed that God is actually here in the room with me, listening to us, and caring.”

Were the events of that weekend worth it? Yes they were — If we never need God, we will never know for sure just how close He is and How much He loves us, and we will never truly be able to depend wholly upon Him! I love You, Lord!

We are tired, we are bruised, but we are very, very grateful to God.

Soli Deo gloria!

John the Baptist asks Jesus, “Are you the one?”

27 Monday Jan 2025

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Luke 7:18-23 – 18 Then the disciples of John reported to him concerning all these things. 19 And John, calling two of his disciples to him, sent them to Jesus, saying, “Are You the Coming One, or do we look for another?” 20 When the men had come to Him, they said, “John the Baptist has sent us to You, saying, ‘Are You the Coming One, or do we look for another?’ ” 21 And that very hour He cured many of infirmities, afflictions, and evil spirits; and to many blind He gave sight. 22 Jesus answered and said to them, “Go and tell John the things you have seen and heard: that the blind see, the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, the poor have the gospel preached to them. 23 And blessed is he who is not offended because of Me.” (NKJV)

I don’t believe John’s question came primarily from personal doubt. While still in the womb he had recognized the voice of Messiah’s Mother, he had identified Jesus on several occasions and witnessed the presence of the Trinity at Jesus’ baptism, and he had certainly heard reports of all that Jesus was doing in His ministry. He didn’t ask, “are you the Messiah?” but “are you the one who is to come?” It’s a subtle distinction, but it’s essentially “are you the one who is to fulfil all the expectations of God’s people?” The Holy Spirit carefully guided his choice of words, and perhaps that was as much because of all those who would hear the question and answer beyond John himself.

While not a simple one-word response, Jesus’ answer was a clear and definite yes. He didn’t provide any information that was new to John, but by His response He corrected the scope of the question. “I’m doing everything that Messiah was called and promised to do.” Beyond that, Jesus is not providing any certainty, no promises of escape or relief. And it’s not just John; He makes this principle universal in His answer to the disciples prior to His ascension in Acts 1:4-8 – “will You at this time restore the kingdom to Israel?”, responding “It is not for you to know times or seasons which the Father has put in His own authority. But you will receive power … [to do the work you are called to do].” Leave all the rest in the hands of the Father who loves you.

When your pursuit fails

28 Wednesday Jun 2017

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Is there an intention, plan, or project in your life which is failing?  If so, could that pursuit be from your own desires rather than God’s will for you?  Sometimes it’s hard to tell.  What should you do?

I recommend:
1. Lay it on the altar – offer your desire up to God to do with as He will
2. Ask God, who is your loving Father, that if your pursuit is not His will He would take away the desire in your heart
3. Then ask Him, that if your pursuit is His will He would give you the courage, strength, and perseverance to keep working until it comes to pass
4. Finally, ask Him to show you the way forward; He may have a different route to your destiny

This is not a one-time action, either.  Always hold plans in your hands loosely, as God may desire to change your direction at any point.  Trust Him: He knows what He is doing.

Whatever your pursuit, ALWAYS live in the present even as you pursue the future.  God desires us to “bloom where we are planted”, to bear fruit in our present circumstances.  That’s why He told the Israelites as they were heading into captivity, “And seek the peace of the city where I have caused you to be carried away captive, and pray to the Lord for it; for in its peace you will have peace.” (Jeremiah 29:7)  Paul and Silas sang in prison with their feet in the stocks, and the jailer and his entire household were saved.  Don’t be so focused on the future completion of your pursuit that you neglect to do good to those around you today.

Finally, be of good courage.  Keep in remembrance the words of the Pharisee Gamaliel to the High Priest and his council when Peter and the other apostles were preaching and healing in the Name of Jesus:
“…if this plan or this work is of men, it will come to nothing; but if it is of God, you cannot overthrow it—lest you even be found to fight against God.” (Acts 5:28b-39)

At long last, an update

26 Wednesday Nov 2014

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You haven’t heard much from me since Edye, Christyn, and Tobyn arrived in England in June. Please forgive me for that. It has been a time of huge change, even though the English culture and way of life has more in common with America than any other country (except Canada, perhaps). I know you all have many, many prayer concerns of your own, but I am asking that you pray for us too, whenever God brings us to mind.

It is awesome to be in England (and Scotland, where we have a mission church as well). We thank God for the many ways in which He has guided and provided for us. It’s not like being here on holiday, though, and we knew it wouldn’t be. Integrating the children into the school system has been a challenge, especially for Christyn. In America she would have begun her sophomore year of high school, comprised of classes planned last spring with her talents in mind. She would have had the entire school year to prepare for taking the PSAT in the fall of her junior year, with the SAT, ACT, and AP exams taken in the senior year: three years to complete her high school education, full of opportunities to choose electives, participate in extracurricular activities, and be involved in community service.

Unfortunately, in the UK Christyn is entering the last year of a two-year preparation for GCSE (General Certificate of Secondary Education) exams, and she is intimidated by the amount of work they are expecting her to make up in this final year of high school. This has placed tremendous emotional pressure on her, adding to the stress of relocating to a new household, a new country, a new culture (life in London is different than the rest of England), and the turmoil a teenage girl normally faces. All this without the support of friends or even her older siblings – it is almost too much for her to bear. On the bright side, it’s forcing her to evaluate what is really important in her life, and we truly believe this could be carrying her toward that moment when she will cry out to God and receive Jesus as her personal Saviour and the foundation of her life. At present she is overwhelmed with how things are turning out here, thinking God brought all this upon her. We are praying for her, and seeking counseling for her anxiety.

Tobyn is not having much academic difficulty. He is making some acquaintances but has not yet established any close friendships. He and Christyn both note that the prevailing attitudes at school are hardly Christian, and with no same-aged children regularly attending the church we pastor their peer support for the faith is slim. While the internet provides some social interaction and the ability to maintain contact with friends elsewhere, our goal is to involve them in a nearby youth group and/or community outreach program to provide friends that will encourage their walk with the Lord.

We are living in the small home of our deacon and his wife: Tobyn, Edye, and I occupy the loft, which is perhaps 15’x10’, and Christyn has her own bedroom of 9’x6’. We get by with the clothes we brought with us on the flights over, with a few small additions of clothing we’ve purchased or received as gifts. Deacon Andrew and Matea occupy the main bedroom and use the front room as an office, and we all share the 9’x9’ dining area and a small galley kitchen. With the reduced tithes it would take a miracle for this living situation to change before next summer. Though we have already paid for the move of our possessions from Virginia we cannot complete it, as we have no place to move them to; storage costs here are at least 1/3 higher than in America, so it is cheaper to store them there for now. We are still making payments for our costs of relocation, which take up almost half of our stipend. God is teaching us to live very simply.

The church here has long been at war spiritually with the powers of darkness, and in the time between our acceptance of this position (in June 2013) and our arrival that battle increased. Membership in the church declined, as did giving. Now we find that a war for hearts and minds throughout the diocese which has been going on unseen for years has broken out into the open. Two priests and a bishop in Europe have been deposed, and the former Archbishop who retired has abandoned his vows and consecrated one of the deposed priests as a bishop in what will surely become a separate communion. The battlefield is littered with wounded: those who have left the faith, those who have left the ICCEC, and those who remain but are hurting – some with wounds more than a decade old.

Were we wrong to come here? Absolutely not. We were called here for such a time as this. All the provision, challenges, heartbreaks, miracles, and steadfast friends God blessed us with in the past He has used to prepare us for this hour in this place. And we have seen positive changes: in the past weeks three people who had stopped coming to St. Stephen’s have once more become regular attendees. But we cannot do this alone, and we truly value your prayers added to the those of the flock here. Pray as the Lord leads you, when He leads you. Please pray that God would provide all that we need, both spiritually and materially – the four of us here, and our three children and one grandchild remaining in America: Éowyn and Noah, Carys, and Bryn. Rather than tell you what to pray for, I just ask that God’s will be done – because I know His will is best for us; His plan is better than any plan we might come up with. I commend to you the prayer I pray, based on Colossians 1:9-12:

Lord God, fill us with the knowledge of Your will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding, that we may live lives worthy of You and may please You in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to Your glorious might, so that we may have great endurance and patience, and joyfully giving thanks to You, Father, who have qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light. We do not pray that You should take us out of the world, but that You should keep us from the evil one.

Thank you for your prayers. We have not stopped praying for you, as we know you have challenges to face and battles to fight as well. Be of good cheer, for Christ has overcome the world. You and we will see His victory played out in our lives and the lives of those around us, so do not lose heart. We thank God for you, and are blessed to call you friends.

Together in His service,

Dana+ and Edye Jackson

We pray, because the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour

13 Friday Jun 2014

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Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. – 1 Peter 5:8

Please pray for our family, especially the children.  All goes well in England, but practically everyone in the US (those staying as well as those coming) are under spiritual attack.  Éowyn and Bryn both took vehicles in for maintenance last week, to a shop that has always been of very good quality for us, and both of them have experienced additional problems this week:  one was a different problem, one the same.  Carys in NC also took her car in last week, and this week it broke down the afternoon before a second job interview; it caused her to miss the interview and the employer was not willing to reschedule.  Tobyn has started having nightmares stemming from a recent outpatient labwork appointment, which is totally unlike him.

We know the Lord will work these all out, but it is so challenging for them when their whole world is going through this transformation.

Praise report

The good news:  Edye, Christyn, and Tobyn will be joining me this week in England, visas in hand.  We were able to move their tickets purchased with frequent flyer miles up from July 10 to June 17, with no extra fees:  total cost 90,000 frequent flyer miles + $15.  Thank you, Lord God!

Support status

Goal:                  $11,722

Received:            $  1,175                 10% of total

 

Thanks for the memories….

05 Thursday Jun 2014

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Long before man created Blu-rays and MP3 players, before DVDs and CDs, before digital cameras and audio recorders, before movie cameras and cassette tapes, before film cameras and vinyl records, before glass plates and wax cylinders … long before any of these, God created memory.

Memory.  The ability to relive moments from our past in vivid detail.  To revisit scenes so beautiful they fill our hearts with longing; to recall people so close they flood our eyes with tears; to remember love so pure it pierces our souls with pain.

Long before technology, God created in man the ability to experience so much more than just what happens to sit in front of him at the moment.  We have invented poor imitations of His creation, longing to defeat the inexorable decay that affects our memories as we age.  But our every attempt fails … because the value of the sights and sounds we capture in technology is totally dependent upon our memory – the one human, fallible link.  If we do not remember an event’s significance, all the memorabilia from that time and place will have no meaning.

O Lord, thank you for memories.  Thank you for all you have done for us.  May we especially keep alive the memory of those who’ve touched our lives such that we will never be the same.

Not the end, but the beginning

14 Wednesday May 2014

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Incredible!  Amazing!  Awesome!  Humbling.

After 23 years of hope deferred, the Lord has brought to completion what He promised:  this past Sunday, 11 May 2014, He set my feet on 330-year old stones as priest-in-charge of St. Stephen’s CEC, London, England.  The promise had started on Thursday, 13 May 1991, when He set our feet on 700-year old stones in the ruins of Tintern Abbey (located near Chepstow in Wales) and turned our thoughts toward those who had built it (and all the other cathedrals, abbeys, and churches we had visited) … men and women who had lived, worshipped, and died preserving the faith which we now hold so dear.  What He laid on our hearts that day so long ago became a burden, a longing for the people of England, Scotland, Wales, and Ireland.

We held on to that promise, and we sought after it … but always the answer was the same – whether through circumstances or through words of those in authority over us:  “not now, not here, not yet”.  We learned patience … and trust … and gained an inkling of just how much our Father loves us.

The promise became a journey.  In 1993 our independent charismatic church became part of the ICCEC (and later a cathedral), and in 1994 I was ordained a deacon alongside six other men. In 1995 God called us to move from Olathe, KS to Kansas City, MO to begin investigating Christian community, and to plant a mission church on the very border of the inner city.  There He taught us to love and minister one-on-one to the poor, the least, the lost, the lonely.  In 1999 He taught us to keep loving even when our hearts were breaking, as half the church and the community left the battle.  In 2000 He taught us the love and care of our bishop and cathedral, as we moved back to Olathe for healing and restoration.  In 2009 He taught us patience in the midst of adversity as I was laid off by my employer.  In 2010 He taught us to stretch and to trust, closing all doors to employment except one in Virginia that eventually required commuting to the very heart of Washington, DC.  In 2012 He taught us peace in the face of fear as He carried us through a harrowing van accident on a rain-slicked highway, with only minor injuries.  In 2013 He taught us to hear and obey, putting our house for sale in a depressed market at a very poor time of year – and sold it in two months.

The journey is almost over, but the adventure is not.  The promise, the call, was to the British/Irish isles … but that is not the destination.  We are not merely to be here, but we are here for a purpose.  That purpose was revealed to us in 1991 after we had returned to the U.S. from Britain.

The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the broken-hearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the LORD’s favour and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion – to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.  They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of His splendour.  They will rebuild the ancient ruins and restore the places long devastated; they will renew the ruined cities that have been devastated for generations. – Isaiah 62:1-4

The Lord gave me this Scripture as my life “verse” upon our return, and gave Edye a similar passage Isaiah 58:6-14 from which the following verse comes:

Those from among you shall build the old waste places; you shall raise up the foundations of many generations; and you shall be called the Repairer of the Breach, the Restorer of Streets to Dwell In – Isaiah 58:12

Though the journey may be nearing its end – and even that we cannot be certain of – the promise and the burden are not.  We are not called to a destination, but to a ministry – and so are you!

Who am I, that God would give such a promise and then so graciously grant it?  I certainly don’t deserve it.  And we are not the only ones who have a promise, a burden.  I share our journey not because we are special, but because this is the stuff of all our lives:  trial, heartbreak, disappointment, potential, progress, setback, diversion, repeat, grow weary, stumble, rise up … as long as we keep going.  The vision from God will come in every case except one:  it will not come if we quit!

Those who sowed with tears will reap with songs of joy.  Those who go out weeping, carrying the seed, will come again with joy, shouldering their sheaves. – Psalm 126:6-7

Praise reports

  • The people and clergy of St. Stephen’s and the church in Edinburgh
  • All those who have housed us, prayed for us, donated funds and goods to us, worked alongside us, exercised authority over us, and supported us throughout our journey
  • Approval of my visa and a swift passage through customs on entry at Heathrow
  • Edye’s completion and submission of visa applications for her and the children

Prayer requests

  • That Edye, Christyn, and Tobyn’s visa would be approved in short order so they might join me in London by early June

Support status

  • Goal:                  $ 11,722
  • Received:           $      600

Beware the trap of disappointment and disillusionment

29 Tuesday Apr 2014

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Disclosure 1:  This is where I am at personally:  The approval of St. Stephen’s sponsorship license – the church’s commitment to provide for the support of my family when we arrive in England – by the UK Home Office was estimated to take as long as eight weeks, but took only one.  The approval of my work visa as a minister was estimated to be approved within three weeks (97% are), so we acted accordingly … but it has been almost five weeks.  Is this an attack of the enemy, or is at least a portion of it the work of God? 

What do you do when life doesn’t go the way you expect?  Whether it is something out of the blue, or something that you’ve been praying hard about – what do you do when your every action is opposed, and every step forward is a major battle?  This is a subtly different question than that posed for Holy Week, for here we are concerned with life “upstream” from the final result, when the outcome is still unknown.

We have at least four choices:

My way – A significant percentage of those who carry the name Christian believe, in essence, that “if I want it God has to do it because He promised”.  Think about that a minute … I mean really think about it.  Do we honestly believe that any of us has a more perfect concept of what is best for us than our heavenly Father does?  Think back on all the things you wanted and asked for in your younger days (not just childhood, either) and I’m sure you’ll come across quite a few that you are grateful God, your parents, or others did not provide.  And if your objection is “God will only give me desires that He wants to fulfill”, you have a point; the problem is that God is not the only source of your desires.  Jesus acknowledged this on the night of His arrest:  “’My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death. Stay here and watch with Me.’  He went a little farther and fell on His face, and prayed, saying, ’O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will.’” (Matthew 26:38-39 NKJV)

The highway – We could respond, “If that’s the way God is, I’m outta here!”  Perhaps you’ve seen something like this manifest itself in a statement such as “MY God would NEVER do that!” regarding the trials and tribulations that are integral to the human experience.  It can even result in a jettisoning of God’s real character to be replaced by a god created in one’s own image.  This statement is essentially what Job’s friends were declaring to him:  “God would never do this to a good person, you must be guilty of some awful sin we don’t know about that deserves this fate.”  Fortunately neither Job nor his friends “hit the highway” afterward; they all remained committed.  God confronted Job’s friends and put the lie to this response, and then confronted Job to put the lie to the idea that Job or anyone could have a better understanding of what’s best for him.

The low way – You might term this the “Eeyore” response (read the story of Winnie the Pooh if you’re not familiar with Eeyore).  When the first obstacle comes along, it’s easy to say, “Oh, well” and simply allow life to happen to us.  We might not quit trying, but we certainly can quit expecting to succeed.  There is nothing of the “fight the good fight of faith” (1 Timothy 6:12a) or “we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope” (Romans 5:3b-4) in this response.  It is not rebellion, but neither is it faith.

God’s way – This is the way of Jesus.  The previous post mentioned how Jesus was always observant, and “only did what He saw the Father doing” in a situation.  This is the best – in fact, the only correct – response, and in order to exhibit it in our lives we must prepare for it as Jesus prepared.  We must:

  • Pray without ceasing (listening more than speaking), that we might hear directly from the Father
  • Observe without prejudice, that we might discern the “big picture” rather than just the little corner we want for ourselves
  • Wait without impatience, that we might not get out in front of the Holy Spirit

As we practice doing these things we can learn to act with boldness and confidence that we are flowing in our Lord’s will.  Along the way we will fail:  we will act when we should not, and we will fail to act when we should.  But if we confess these sins and maintain this discipline, we will get better and better.

When disappointments and disillusionments come, we will learn to discern (a) when to let go, let God work, and cooperate with Him, and (b) when to “resist the devil, and he will flee”.  Remember Gamaliel’s warning to the council of the Jews regarding the work of the apostles:  “… for if this plan or this work is of men, it will come to nothing; but if it is of God, you cannot overthrow it—lest you even be found to fight against God.” (Acts 5:38-39 NKJV)

Let us cooperate fully with all that God is accomplishing in our lives and the lives of others, and let us war unceasingly against the plans of the world, the flesh, and the devil!

Disclosure 2:  In counsel with my bishop, I believe that God has desired this delay as there were many family tasks and relationship issues that needed to be addressed.  These are nearly completed, and so we pray that the visa will now be approved and released in Jesus’ Name.

Non nobis Domine

15 Tuesday Apr 2014

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We are at His mercy; we are at His service

It has been quite a journey the last few weeks, which is why I have been silent.  Even this post feels like random scattered thoughts.  So many hectic activities:  my last week of secular employment; completing the last cull of possessions to be kept for the children; cleaning up the Parish House at Church of the Holy Apostles; Edye and Bryn loading up the moving van with tremendous help from Mary, Grace, and John Silva; driving from Virginia to Kansas in two days through mostly-pleasant cloud cover interspersed with times of heavy rain; unloading the van into separate storage for Éowyn and Bryn; and finally settling in at the home of our hosts, the Bastins.

Through it all the Lord has been with us, just as He is with you.  The enemy of our souls is very confident in our day, and he prowls around openly seeking whom he may devour.  We see his workings in our own lives, and in the lives of all those around us – at the Cathedral here in Kansas, the loving churches we left behind in Maryland and Virginia, and the churches we are headed to in England, Scotland, and Ireland.  People are struggling everywhere and in greater numbers than ever: with unemployment, health issues, grief, depression, and every obstacle to growth that the enemy can throw in front of them.

We see even more clearly the evidence that the Lover of our souls is working in His people: new jobs, healings, spiritual and physical growth – even returning health in a parishioner for whom doctors gave little hope of survival.  No matter how dark the night – no matter how dark the culture or your circumstances get – God is there and He is not silent.  You may not hear Him speak, but Jesus lives to intercede for you and the Holy Spirit will never leave nor forsake you.  Press through the dark and the pain, and press into your heavenly Father Who loves you more than you can imagine.  Hold onto Him, but remember even more importantly:  He is holding on to you, and He will not let go no matter how weak you feel.

The enemy is playing for keeps … but God knows his every plan before he even thinks it.  Though we walk through the valley of death we need not fear, for Christ is with us and has gone before us.   Therefore, as Winston Churchill said, “Never, never, never, never give up.”  God will carry you through!

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A donor from Westminster, MD provided half the airfare for Bryn to visit us in London over Christmas

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That my visa would be approved ASAP so I might be in London for Holy Week services

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Pillars of remembrance

27 Thursday Mar 2014

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Sitting in the parish house at early morning, noticing the pictures and furnishings … many of them are obviously from Bob’s family and his growing-up years. These are the little reminders of a happy past, of people and events that had significant positive impact in Bob’s life.

My thoughts turn to my own life, and the mementos of my growing-up years and those of Edye and our children … the joys of those times and events … and the sadness that so many of them had to be given up/given away/thrown away in the transition to our new life.

The good news is that the memories are not given away. We scan the photographs and digitize the recordings to preserve them … but even if all these are lost, the memories bring back scenes we saw, voices we heard, aromas we smelled, flavors we tasted, people we touched … and those who touched us.

These are the piles of stones – the pillars of remembrance – erected in our lives like those of the Israelites, so that when we are old we can look back and remember God’s rich provision in our lives … even if we have no earthly riches. We review them with our family, reminding our children of God’s faithfulness which they have seen firsthand, and which they can know for themselves.

That is covenant. They are automatically part of it. They do not have to choose it to receive it … but they can choose to walk away from it and not receive it.

We must remind them. We must show them the pillars of remembrance, and recall with them the bounty of God’s love and grace poured out to them. We must make clear to them the incredible value of Christ’s precious gift to us.

For the day will come – much too soon – when we, too, will be just pillars of remembrance … for them.